Transcript: SEX!! What are men really looking for.  Here are some expert insights.  While a conscious desire for sex seems to be governed by our physical attraction to others, our emotions and our fears, we all have a fundamental drive to reproduce that silent the influences of what we find attractive, what we feel and what we fear.  Each genders approach to sex is influenced by the relative scarcity of the reproductive materials.  While males have an almost limitless supply of sperm, females have relatively few eggs, so women typically put a higher price on the reprodcutive materials.  given this there are unique strategies that males and females employ to maximize their reproductive fitness.  For example, men are almost invariably more promiscuous than women.  this is because the most reproductively fit men wants to get as many females pregnant as possible.  For the same reason men are instinctively attracted to traits that indicate health and fertility like glossy hair, shiny eyes, and that classic hourglass figure.  In fact in many widely different cultures the ideal female body is the same, one where the waist is 71% the size of the hips.  Sex is a fascinating topic the attractions and emotions that guide us in our sexual choices are often our bodies way of communitcating a basic evolutionary drive.  so the next time you are attracted to someone, ask yourself what your body is really saying.